Chronic pain can be a debilitating and arduous experience. However, I have a few clients who have been inspirational to me, in how they have faced up to these challenges with awareness, curiosity and grace. Despite what can feel like never-ending discomfort, mental well-being and hope can still be possible.

What Do We Mean by Chronic Pain?

Chronic pain is pain that lasts for longer than three months, or beyond the usual time it takes for tissues or injuries to heal. It might begin after an injury, illness, or surgery, or sometimes with no clear starting point at all.

Importantly, chronic pain is not just a signal of tissue damage. Over time, the nervous system itself can become more sensitive, meaning the brain and body stay on “high alert,” even when there is no ongoing injury. Pain, in this sense, becomes a learned and reinforced experience within the nervous system.

This doesn’t mean the pain is “imaginary”! Chronic pain is very real, and it reflects changes in how the brain, nerves, muscles, and stress systems interact.

How Chronic Pain and Mental Health Affect Each Other

Chronic pain doesn’t exist in isolation. It often becomes tightly linked with mood, energy, sleep, and motivation.

Many people notice that over time:

• Pain leads to reduced activity, social withdrawal, or avoidance
• Reduced activity can contribute to low mood, frustration, or hopelessness
• Depression and anxiety increase muscle tension, inflammation, and pain sensitivity
• The nervous system becomes caught in a pain–stress–fatigue cycle

This creates a loop:
Pain → less movement and pleasure → lower mood → heightened pain sensitivity

The encouraging news is that this loop can be interrupted. Gently supporting the nervous system can reduce pain intensity, increase confidence in the body, and improve quality of life.

Simple, Evidence-Based Practices to Support Chronic Pain

These practices are not about “getting rid” of pain or pushing through it. Instead, they aim to calm the nervous system, reduce reactivity, and help the body relearn safety.

Even a few minutes a day can make a difference.

1. Mindful Attention to the Body

Mindfulness for pain is not about ignoring pain or trying to make it disappear. It’s about noticing sensations with curiosity rather than fear.

How to practise:

• Choose a comfortable position
• Gently bring attention to your breath or body
• When pain shows up, notice its qualities (pressure, heat, movement) rather than judging it
• If the sensation feels overwhelming, shift attention to a neutral or pleasant area (e.g., hands, feet, or breath)

Why this helps:
Mindfulness reduces threat signalling in the brain and helps separate pain from suffering. Research shows it can reduce pain intensity, distress, and depressive symptoms.

2. Visualising Safety and Comfort

The brain responds to imagery in much the same way it responds to real experiences. Visualisation can be a powerful way to signal safety to the nervous system.

How to practise:

• Close your eyes and imagine a place where you feel safe or at ease
• Picture details: colours, textures, sounds
• If helpful, imagine warmth, softness, or gentle support around painful areas

Why this helps:
Visualisation can reduce muscle guarding and calm the stress response, which often amplifies pain signals.

3. Gentle, Paced Movement

When pain is persistent, it’s common to either avoid movement altogether or push too hard on “good days.” Both can increase flare-ups.

How to practise:

• Choose small, predictable amounts of movement (e.g., a short walk, stretching)
• Keep it consistent rather than reactive to pain levels
• Focus on what your body can do, not what it can’t

Why this helps:
Regular movement reassures the nervous system that the body is safe, reduces stiffness, and improves mood and confidence over time.

4. Compassionate Self-Talk During Pain Flares

How we speak to ourselves during pain matters. Threat-based thoughts (“This will never end,” “My body is broken”) increase nervous system arousal.

How to practise:

• Notice critical or catastrophic thoughts
• Gently replace them with supportive statements such as:
  • “This is difficult, and I’m doing my best”
  • “My body is trying to protect me”
  • “This sensation can change”

Why this helps:
Self-compassion reduces stress hormones, lowers emotional distress, and supports emotional resilience, all of which influence pain processing.

A Hopeful Note

Living with chronic pain can be exhausting and isolating. But pain is not fixed, and the nervous system remains changeable throughout life. Small, consistent practices that support safety, awareness, and self-kindness can gradually reduce pain intensity, improve mood, and help you reconnect with your life, even if pain is still present.

Support from a psychologist, physiotherapist, GP, or pain-informed therapist can further tailor these approaches to your unique experience. Contact the Centre for Effective Living for further support or questions. Some other helpful websites include Pain Australia and PainHealth.

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Let’s talk about magnesium. This is a mineral that frequently finds its way into my prescriptions for people dealing with chronic pain and fatigue.

So why is this essential mineral high on my list of priorities? Let’s break it down.

The Role of Magnesium in Your Body
Magnesium is a vital mineral found in a variety of plant-based foods. It plays a role in over 300 enzyme reactions in the body, supporting:

• Energy production
• Muscle and nerve function
• Neurotransmitter pathways
• Protein synthesis
• Blood sugar regulation
• Heart health and blood pressure regulation
• Mood and stress response
• Sleep quality
• Bone health
• Immune system function
• DNA repair and synthesis
• Digestion

Unlike some other minerals, magnesium isn’t stored in the body, meaning you need a consistent supply from your diet. Stress increases your body’s need for magnesium because you use it up more quickly and excrete it faster.

Magnesium for Chronic Pain and Fatigue

1. Pain Reduction
   Magnesium blocks substance P, a hormone that amplifies pain perception. It also acts on NMDA receptors in the brain to reduce central sensitization, a key factor in conditions like fibromyalgia. Additionally, magnesium supports GABA production, a neurotransmitter that is involved in pain regulation.
2. Muscle Relaxation and Sleep Quality
   Many people with chronic pain also struggle with muscle tension, cramping, and poor sleep. Magnesium acts as a natural muscle relaxant and has been shown to improve sleep quality, which in turn supports better pain management and lower fatigue levels.
3. Anti-Inflammatory Effects
   Studies suggest that magnesium supplementation can lower inflammatory markers.
   People with low magnesium levels often show increased inflammation, which can worsen chronic pain.
4. Energy Support
   Magnesium plays a crucial role in mitochondrial function, where energy is produced. It also helps regulate blood sugar levels, preventing crashes that can contribute to fatigue.
5. Mood and Cognitive Function
   Many individuals with chronic conditions experience stress, anxiety, depression, and brain fog. Magnesium supports mental well-being by balancing neurotransmitters and promoting a more stable mood.

Signs of Magnesium Deficiency

• Anxiety and low mood
• Headaches
• Muscle cramps, twitches, or weakness
• Heart palpitations
• High or low blood pressure
• Fatigue
• Poor sleep
• Persistent low Vitamin D levels despite supplementation

Magnesium-Rich Foods

Including these foods in your diet can help maintain healthy magnesium levels:

• Nuts and seeds: Pumpkin seeds, chia seeds, almonds, cashews, peanuts, Brazil nuts
• Leafy greens: Spinach, kale
• Legumes: Black beans, edamame, kidney beans
• Proteins: Salmon, tofu
• Other sources: Avocado, bananas, figs, dark chocolate (85% or higher), amaranth

Choosing the Right Magnesium Supplement

Many of my clients have already tried magnesium supplements before coming to me, unsure if they worked. The truth is not all magnesium supplements are created equal and choosing the right form is essential.

Best Forms for Pain and Fatigue

• Magnesium glycinate – Great for relaxation, anxiety, and muscle pain
• Magnesium malate – Helpful for fibromyalgia and energy production
• Magnesium citrate – Ideal for those with constipation or high acidity
• Magnesium threonate – Best for brain fog, neurological symptoms, and sleep

Often a combination of several forms might by used to improve bioavailability and increase effectiveness.

Dosage & Quality Matter

The right dosage depends on deficiency symptoms, medications, stress levels, and diet. It’s also important to consider cofactors—other nutrients that help magnesium work effectively in the body.

Tip: Keep a pain and symptom diary to track improvements. When you’re in constant pain, it’s easy to overlook subtle changes.

Magnesium is Just One Piece of the Puzzle

While magnesium can be a game-changer for some, chronic pain and fatigue require a holistic approach. It’s best to consult a practitioner to ensure you’re getting the right supplements for your unique needs.

Article supplied with thanks to Kelli Kieselbach.

About the Author: Kelli Kieselbach is a Naturopath and Nutritionist with a passion for a holistic and natural approach to health and wellbeing. Kelli has a special interest in chronic fatigue and chronic pain disorders, and also works to educate Christian ministry leaders in self care and avoiding burnout.

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